Monday, June 25, 2007

My bad Habit

wo bu zhi dao zhe me shuo...
yi qian, wo yi dianr ye bu xiang hui guo
dan shi wo baba yao wo hui guo shuo yi wo man yi. ran hou wo zhun bei hao huiguo.
hu ran wo de baba bian ta de dasuan. ta bu rang wo hui guo. ying gai zhu zai Beijing. wo ye you dianr bu man yi. wo zi ji xiang yi xiang...
ren na me qi guai... yi qian wo bu yao huiguo... xian zai wo bu hui guo dan shi ye you dianr bu man yi.
wo yinggai zhe me yang ye bu zhidao.

Sunday, June 17, 2007

confused about my life

di beijing tak terasa udah 4 bulan... mau balek indo neh...
tapi balik juga bingung mau ngapain ini di indo..
mungkin yang namanya hidup ini seperti ini ya...
kalo ngga ada masalah hidup jadi tawar banget

Sunday, May 20, 2007

The meaning of friendship

A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be. ~Douglas Pagels

Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things. ~Author Unknown

A single rose can be my garden... a single friend, my world. ~Leo Buscaglia

Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty. ~Sicilian Proverb

The antidote for fifty enemies is one friend. ~Aristotle

In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. ~Albert Schweitzer

A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad. ~Arnold H. Glasgow

The friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you. ~Elbert Hubbard, The Notebook, 1927

A good friend is cheaper than therapy. ~Author Unknown

If a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it. ~Edgar Watson Howe

The most I can do for my friend is simply be his friend. ~Henry David Thoreau

A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down. ~Arnold Glasow

But if the while I think on thee, dear friend,
All losses are restored and sorrows end.
~William Shakespeare

The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart. ~Elisabeth Foley

It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend. ~William Blake

A friend is the only person you will let into the house when you are Turning Out Drawers. ~Pam Brown

One's friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human. ~George Santayana

A friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails. ~Donna Roberts

If I had to sum up Friendship in one word, it would be Comfort. ~Adabella Radici

If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself alone. A man should keep his friendships in constant repair. ~Samuel Johnson

True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable. ~Dave Tyson Gentry

You can always tell a real friend: when you've made a fool of yourself he doesn't feel you've done a permanent job. ~Laurence J. Peter

Friends are those rare people who ask how you are and then wait for the answer. ~Author Unknown

A friend is the one who comes in when the whole world has gone out. ~Grace Pulpit

One doesn't know, till one is a bit at odds with the world, how much one's friends who believe in one rather generously, mean to one. ~D.H. Lawrence

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art.... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival. ~C.S. Lewis

Constant use will not wear ragged the fabric of friendship. ~Dorothy Parker

Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends. ~Virginia Woolf

There are big ships and small ships. But the best ship of all is friendship. ~Author Unknown

The best kind of friend is the one you could sit on a porch with, never saying a word, and walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've had. ~Author Unknown

The language of friendship is not words but meanings. ~Henry David Thoreau

A true friend is one who thinks you are a good egg even if you are half-cracked. ~Author Unknown

Friends are kisses blown to us by angels. ~Author Unknown

It's important to our friends to believe that we are unreservedly frank with them, and important to the friendship that we are not. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960

It is the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter. ~Marlene Dietrich

She is a friend of mind. She gather me, man. The pieces I am, she gather them and give them back to me in all the right order. It's good, you know, when you got a woman who is a friend of your mind. ~Toni Morrison, Beloved

Friends can be said to "fall in like" with as profound a thud as romantic partners fall in love. ~Letty Cottin Pogrebin

Nothing but heaven itself is better than a friend who is really a friend. ~Plautus

Ternyata orang indo adalah orang paling breng**k

Dari pengalamanku selama 3 bulan di negeri orang bersama dengan manusia dari berbagai negara, saya mendapat banyak sekali pelajaran hidup. bersosialisasi dengan orang dari yang budayanya sama sekali berbeda dengan budaya yang ada dilingkunganku selama ini. ada suatu fenomena yang menarik yang dapat ditarik suatu kesimpulan di sini. Yaitu bahwa menurut pandangan saya ternyata manusia indonesia cenderung bersifat egois dan invidualistis dibanding manusia dari negara lain. Sungguh kenyataan yang menyakitkan hati. mengingat semboyan bangsa indonesia yang mengutamakan persatuan dan kesatuan ternyata hanya sekedar teori kosong. Mereka cenderung memandang dari sudut pandang yang sempit. semoga saja kenyataan ini tidak betul....

Ok.. sekian sekadar ulasan dari saya.

Saturday, May 19, 2007

my holiday's review

五月我有放假。叫五一放假。五一我去西安,洛阳。 在那有很多文化的地方。看中国的文化我很高兴。燃火来北京以后,我去四川。在四川很好玩, 很多上山,很美。我去九载购,乐山,成都。但是我的同车不太好。有两个不好人。一个比动物一样,没有脑。一个是不好人。我也不知道为什么他们可以做这样。他们的心不好。

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

libur telah tiba

Akhirnya...
setelah sekian lama menunggu..
datanglah yang namanya liburan.

wu yi fang jia (liburan memperingati mayday)..
setelah 2 bulan lebih melepas penat dengan belajar banyak hal yang bersifat teori.
ini saatnya untuk belajar hal yang bersifat praktek.

ini adalah saat yang kutunggu..
bertemu dengan banyak orang baru...
mempelajari budaya mereka..
membuka mata pikiran. Seperti apa sih orang dari dunia luar.

Saya tidak harus berkomentar apa...
ada seorang teman yang bertanya...
dia merasa dari pekerjaannya dia mendapat materi yang berkecukupan..
lebih di atas rata2..
tapi dia merasa bahwa selama ini yang dilakukan olehnya terlalu simple.
dia tidak merasa mendapat apa yang dicari olehnya selama ini.

In my opinion...
just do what you want...
inilah saatnya bagi kita mengarungi samudra kehidupan...
ketika nanti tiba waktunya berlabuh bolehlah kita berkumpul bersama dalam satu meja untuk berbagi cerita... berbagi pengalaman seperti yang kita lakukan sebelum kita berangkat mengarungi samudra kehidupan.

See you..

Monday, April 30, 2007

Another experience which makes me growth

Today was my friend's birthday... at the midnight, I and with some of friends gave a small surprise. I didn't know how to express that.. But it wasn't the point which i want to share. I just wanna share what i felt. A lot of people especially my friends said that i'm the guy with full of trick.. (so damn s***!!). too much thinking.. too much use logical things... that's can make me often be a losser in such of things which no need to use you brain, your logical, but use your heart, your feeling (almost all of my friends are know about it). And it's happen again in the last night... when i saw a moments which could make me felt that once again, i was a losser. Actually in normal situation, i should be happy when i was in the same moment, in the other hand, my hurt was hurt. Although it wasn't my final target and i felt it's OK when i didn't get it. But my heart was hurt. So i just act like i was happy. So I tried to use my brain to make some conclusion, but i never got the answer..
Which One Was better, Know the reality which could hurt you, or just don't know the reality??
Know the reality maybe could make me grow.. to be a mature. But sometimes, i hate to know the reality which could hurt me.
Smile is the best way to get out of trouble. Even If it's fake. Amazingly it fools everyone!!!

Friday, April 27, 2007

第一考试好了

第一天考试好了。不错。我很靠高兴。今天是听力考试。我准备我的耳朵。我也不知道听力考试这么样?我要以杨根昨天的考试。昨天的考试我觉得有点儿容易。我现在真很高兴。我也要说谢谢跟我的朋友。林小姐。。 他从美国给我祝。我很高兴有很多好朋友。。。。 以后如果你要我帮你。。。 没关系。 我当然帮助你。。。

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

我的城市 (my home town)

这是我的口语的考试。 他要我说最最喜欢的地方是什么地方? 当然我喜欢我的城市。我是从泗水来。泗水是印尼第二个城市。第一是雅加达。我喜欢泗水的北方。因为在这儿是经济的中心,也是文化的中心。 为什么这样?在这儿有两家博物馆。第一是银熊博物馆。第二是香烟公司的博物馆。我要说第二个。这是新的博物馆。以前这家不是博物馆但是这家世香烟公司。这家公司是最大的香烟公司在印尼。他叫Sampoerna.你可以看他的历史在这家博物馆。在里也有小公司。他建造香烟用手。你可以看他这么杨建造。你也可以自其建造。很好玩儿。然后在泗水的北方也有一个马路。这调马路叫Kembangjepun.每天从早上到下有很多商店开门。这些商店的老伴都是印尼华侨。 他关门一个小时以后汽车不可以勤。很多人在左边和右边开小饭馆。如果你要吃在这儿你应该在外面下车,然后走路。在泗水的北方也有阿拉伯文成。很多阿拉伯文人在这儿。这个地方叫ampel. 为什么我喜欢这个地方?因为肃然他是经济的中心, 他也是文化的中心。

Monday, April 23, 2007

Pandangan terhadap suatu media

Ketika saya menulis ini, saya baru saja membaca artikel di media mengenai seorang mahasiswa asal Korea Cho Seung-Hui yang melakukan suatu aksi yang membuat dunia menjadi kaget dan prihatin. Dengan membawa senjata dia membunuh 33 orang (termasuk dirinya). Sungguh prihatin dan menyedihkan.
Tetapi ada suatu hal yang menarik yang dapat saya simpulkan setelah membaca banyak pemberitaan mengenai dirinya baik di media massa. Apa yang terjadi setelah itu? saya melihat adanya pemberitaan yang terlalu berlebihan yang menyebabkan seakan-akan pelaku menjadi seorang pahlawan. semua kehidupannya di bahas, kemudian pesan-pesannya dimuat... Sehingga dia menjadi begitu terkenal.
Suatu ironi dari peranan media massa. Dimana seharusnya hal ini dihujat dan tidak boleh ditiru, malah dengan adanya suatu pemberitaan yang menghebohkan bukan tidak mungkin menjadi suatu inspirasi bagi cho yang kedua. (sesuatu yang sangat masuk di akal).
Kita flash back ke kejadian yang sebelumnya yaitu peristiwa yang menggegerkan dunia pada tanggal 11 september. di mana setelah itu al qaedah menjadi sangat terkenal dan semua orang jadi tahu siapa itu usama bin Laden. Kemudian berlanjut dengan adanya peristiwa bom bali. dan ternyata ironisnya sedikit banyak pelakunya terilhami oleh Usama yang mereka baca dari media massa.
Sungguh menurut saya sesuatu yang menjadi ironi bagi adanya suatu media. Di mana media cenderung membesarkan pelaku suatu peristiwa. Contoh sederhana misalnya adanya seperti Cho kali ini. Di mana media langsung mengupas habis kehidupan pribadinya, pandangan hidupnya, dan kesehariannya, menyebarluaskan pesan kematiannya, seakan-akan diperlakukan sebagai seorang pahlawan. Bukan tidak mungkin ada orang yang depresi dan takut menjadi pemberani untuk melakukan hal gila seperti yang dilakukan Cho. Bukan tidak mungkin Cho melakukan hal seperti ini juga berdasarkan ilham dari tokoh yang telah melakukan hal serupa dan diberitakan secara hebat di media.
Saya sendiri bukanlah orang yang expert di bidang media, saya hanyalah seorang mahasiswa yang merasa tergelitik untuk memberikan pendapat saya mengenai peranan media yang sekarang cenderung menurut saya berlebihan dalam memuat sesuatu. Tidak bisa disalahkan... karena mereka juga mengejar untung.
Tapi saya tetaplah pada pendapat saya, bahwa pelaku kejahatan adalah pelaku kejahatan. apapun alasan yang menyebabkan hal itu tidak bisa dijadikan alasan untuk pembenarannya. Dan juga tidak perlu untuk memperlakukan mereka seakan-akan mereka adalah pemberani yang berani tampil beda dengan melakukan kejahatan.

Sunday, April 22, 2007

世界(中国-香港)的经济

昨天我跟我的朋友聊天儿。我先介绍一下儿。他是我的高中同学,也是同班。以前我们常常聊天。现在他在美国学习。他是最聪明的朋友。他问我中国的经济这么样?只跟他我可以聊天儿很多。中国的经济现在越来越好。他的振幅很好。在中国,因为人民很多,工资比较便宜,人也不烂。他们工作又好也又快。所以中国的经济有很多进步。他的出口越来越多。他的东西也越来越好。去中国学习对我很好。我相信,十年以后重视最大的国家。

Saturday, April 21, 2007

准备考试很麻烦

考试要来。但是我是懒惰。每天出去玩儿。不学习。我的老师给我付息。。。 都不懂。这么办?
我一定学习努力一点儿!!!!!

A week before mid test

I have been in Beijing for 2 months. It's time to had a mid test. Until now, i don't know what should i do to prepare my mid test. God show me the way to start study.

考试要来。一定学习努力一点儿!!! 有大概一个星期时间!!!!! 加哟!!!

林顺发!!!
学习!!!
学习!!!
学习!!!
学习!!!

不要玩儿!!!

that's why we choose beijing

This is my opinion about beijing. If someone feel i'm wrong just give your comment, and we could make discussion.

some reasons why i recommend beijing to learn chinese :

* In beijing, all of people use National language not local language.
* Almost all beijing people can't speak english so you must speak chinese for survive.
* Beijing is the center of Chinese culture.
* Beijing has a good enviroment to study.
* all of chinese education book was published in beijing.
* beijing's dialog not the best but it's good dialog.

it's my reason why i choose beijing. if you have different opinion we can discuss.

First month Review

I already a month came to China. at Beijing Hua Wen Xue Yen Studied Chinese. My School was small. student's also not much. about 200 students. First week, i was in the sixth class. But at the second week move to fifth class. Had 5 subject grammar, listening, speaking, Writing, reading. Had a nice Roommate, Thainese. About living cost? based on my experience almost same with Indonesia. But if you use imported things you would felt expensive

7 March 2007

Today, i don't know why, i felt so tired. in the class, i felt very sleepy.

In the morning i had a listening class (听力 tingli). very bored in the class. just listen a tape and wrote what they said. After that i had a han yu 汉语 class. Qian laoshi choose a person from my classmates to check our homework and choose another person to check our absent...

6 march 2007 learn to be Real chinese

In the morning, My roommates told me that he felt someone touch her leg and butt. and he felt so cold... hahaha... like someone touch him.

Today is my first yuedu (阅读〕 lesson...

in the class i forgot bring a 阅读's book... so damn, and i shared book with Cay Kuo Ping. And the teacher look me as a lazy student. hahaha...

In the han yu class, my teacher Qian (钱) laoshi (老师) gave (给) a beautiful postcard for each student (学生) in our class (教室).. so nice 老师.. Xiexie(谢谢) 老师. In this 教室 i have a big problem in tone. I must study(学习) hard to learn.

In evening i went(去) to McD with my sister(姐姐) to find something to eat. And then we went to the supermarket near my dormitory (Sushe 宿舍) to buy household.

I don't know why...

if we compare price in China (中国) with Indonesia(印尼), 中国 is cheaper. But I don't know why i just always feel something is expensive in here?

See you Tommorow (明天见)

5 March 2007 Boring day

Today was a very cold day, about -3 celcius degree. So damn COLD....

you would be feel frezee when you walk. Today in my class i was sleepy. I almost sleep at my classroom. there are 3 subject this morning, first is speaking lesson. My teacher show how to ask direction with the others. and then second is han yu subject. My teacher show her family's photo.

Last Lesson is Ting li lesson. So bored in this class. Just listen the tape, and write the exercise. And it was happen where we should have a nap time. hahaha... so SLEEPY

at the evening, the cold weather make me too lazy to go out. just in the dormitory.

4 March 2007 First time felt snow

This day was so special. The first time i could feel and see snow.

so nice also so damn cold. Maybe about 0 or minus 2 celcius.

I played with snow outside my school and took some picture.

This weather also make me become lazy to go to the church, so cold.

and in the evening i went to hou hai lake.So beautiful in this place. Eating at Hu Tong Pizza, a Chinese Italian Restaurant. after that we look a firework. So many firework in this evening, because today was the last day which can turn on the firework.

3 March 2007 My sister's Birthday, First weekend

This day is my first weekend in beijing.

Very poor weekend..

just stay at dormitory...

cause rain in the outside.

i couldn't go any where.

just go to my relative's house. So interesting and to talk with local people. you must carefull to hear what they said. I will learn step by step.

and then went to the restaurant near my dorm with Krung and Martin in the evening to find some food.

after that just stay in the room to watch football match. Liverpool vs Manchester United.

2 March 2007 Second day in school

My second day in my school,

My teacher gave me a school trip schedule.

My school have one program for every two weeks to go to resort at the Beijing.

and this day my teacher gave me a schedule.

It will start at 17th of march 2007. I don't know where will our school go, because it has written with chinese character :(

But i really confident that i will can read it maybe next month.

And i met my buddies in US at MSN.

We have a easy conversation untill late midnight.

Very Nice to talk with you Erlin.

Remember one thing :

CLOSE YOUR EYES, TAKE A DEEP BREATH, SEE WHAT YOUR HEART SAID AND DO IT.

hahaha...

Every person have a purpose, and only yourself who can choose it and believe that you always have a great support behind you, Your CREATOR and He gave a lot of people called friend to support your purpose.

1 March 2007 First day in school

Today is my first day school...

I was in level 6 class. not bad for beginner like me. hahaha...

my class have 8 students, 2 male students and 6 female students.

but after start the class some students move to another class.

some of them move to the diploma class and some of them try to higher level.

and just 2 left in my class. Me and korean. His name is yi sun.

but not for a long time some of my classmate back to our class.

hahaha... because they know our class is the best.

28 February 2007 Zongguancun

I hope it's correct spell.

This day, i went to electrical center called zhong guan jun.

Very far from my dormitory, it's about forty minutes to go there by bus (number 717). in the bus i met an indonesian old man who have lived in beijing for 50 years..(wow). But he can still speak Indonesian very well. He have an indonesian community. so nice to hear about his experience.

In Zhong guan jun, we saw a lot of computer stuff counter. i bought a web cam in here. (too expensive). they offer me about 60 yuans, and i bargained about 40 Yuans (still too high..). Next time i'll be brave to bargain. After from electrical center, i went to a carrefour. and buy household things.

27 February 2007 Wang Fung Jing Street

I don't how to spell it in English...

Today i went to Wang fu ching (It's Correct spell?)..

A amazing street which sell a lot of traditional and cheap food.

And also a lot of shooping store especially cloth.

in this place there are special block (or maybe you can call it small street). in this block you can walk and see a lot of traditional and cheap food counter. And also all of it sell it something fresh from the oven. You can see how to make this food.

So Yummy to see a lot of food in here.

And there are something which you never find in others place except in china. There is insect satay. Can you imagine? Like a scorpion, maybe a coocroach (i don't know how do ypu spell it) hahahaha? I don't know about the taste, cause i'm not brave enough to try it.

and in the night i went to some place which sale a mutton satay with a lot of my new friends. they are from several countries, like Indonesia, Thailand, and Korea. It's very nice. We can share our experience, especially our experience in China.

First day In beijing (25 february 2007)

First Full day in beijing

This is my first day in beijing...

So cold in here.. about 5 degree

this day is the day to prepare my school

like pay school fee, open a bank account

buy household thing, etc...

so cheap in china...

you can buy many thing with 1 yuan...

can you do it in indonesia? i don't think so.
Today was time to leave HK...

and day to went to Beijing...

didn't go to special place... just looking around near my hotel, buy something for my trip to beijing and see my relatives in Hongkong.
and at the evening time,
I arrived to beijing.
I met my sister friends at the airport and lucky to us because we could share the transport to the dormitory.
And in the dormitory, i got thai for roommate.

Second day Abroad (24 February 2007) Ocean Park


Still in Hongkong.. Today I went to Ocean Park. Lucky for me.. because it was still celebrating Chinese New Year.. So crowded in Ocean Park Much people from any country came to this place. I need more than 1 hour queueing to play a mine train... so cold when played... but it could make your adrenaline blow up. Took a Picture with Fortune God Used Cable car... And also celebrate the thirtieth birthday of Ocean Park... Older than me... And at the night I went to Tsim Sha Tsui.. A place like Hollywood for Hongkong Movies. So Romantic and beautiful.. I hope someday i can go with my soulmate together... hahaha

First day abroad (22 February 2007)


Amazing Disneyland.. It's the second time i went to Hongkong Disneyland. It's more interesting because last time i go to this place, it was rain. And then it's still Lunar New year's eve.. Xin nian kuai le So amazing saw a disney character using a traditional chinese clothes (zhibao). One thing you all should notice... You don't need to buy disney mechandise in disneyshop at disneyland You better go to disney shop at Hongkong International Airport.. It's cheaper because there is SALE... Hahaha